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Aphrodisiac foods: stimulate your taste buds and increase
your desire Eating sensual foods together can create a great
mood. Enhance the mood by selecting foods that are known to have aphrodisiacal
qualities i.e. foods that are said to stimulate those parts of the brain responsible
for libido. Foods that are reputed to have this quality,
and are also generally considered delectable include:
- Chocolate
- Caffeine
- Asparagus
- Oysters
- Mushrooms
Many
nuts and fruits such as grapes, pine nuts, ginkgo, betel nut, walnut, and quince,
and vegetables including beans and peas, celery, asparagus, fennel, leek, onions,
radish, okra and yams, are also all claimed to be aphrodisiacs. Spices
with the same reputation include cloves, garlic, ginger, nutmeg, pepper, saffron,
vanilla and plain table salt. Whether they work as an aphrodisiac
or not, you can use them to create atmosphere and promise. The very fact that
you have gone to trouble to create a special menu of special promise will often
be a turn-on in itself for your partner. With this effect in mind, a basic rule
in selecting and presenting food is to be sure it looks desirable and attractive
and signals that you care a great deal about the other person. Foods
should also be light and not leave you feeling over-full. Eating too much will
make you feel very unsexy, as will over-indulgence in alcohol. One or two glasses
helps to reduce inhibitions; more can make you too sleepy or can unsettle your
digestion. Setting the scene A playful
dinner can be formal, with all the trappings of glamour, including mirrors, candles,
crystal and linen. Or it can be relaxed, picnic and fingerfood style. The choices
are endless: indoors or outdoors, seated or reclining - you decide. Think
about what you will eat from and with: beautiful plates and silverware or each
others' bodies and with your fingers? Themes, dress rules
and costumes can help get you both in the mood and lower inhibitions, but they
don't have to be extravagant: - Lingerie only
- Black
tie & an evening dress, formal and very sexy
- Formal
wear on top, with nothing underneath or business wear on top and nothing underneath
- A
nightwear night
- A TV dinner night, with a different type
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- Leather, rubber or PVC
outfits
- Role play: take turns to play waiter/waitress and
demanding diner or pretend you are on your first date
- Scene-setting
accessories, such as The
Bed of Roses or Sex
CD for erotic background music
- And of course, the simplest
of all: dinner without any theme except delicious food and very erotic intentions.
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