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Films Watch a sensual video together,
but choose films that work for both of you. Some women report feeling turned off
by X-rated videos, particularly if they feel that the action focuses only on male
pleasure. Others report that watching actors with perfect - often surgically enhanced
- bodies makes them feel inadequate and undermines confidence. Explore these concerns
together and, as with all your sexual activities, be willing to discuss how you
feel openly. LoveLife Plus DVDs are not offensive and are
meant to provide couples with simple, practical information about healthy sexuality
and how to enjoy each other. You won't find them in most video shops. Choose from
the Lovers' Guide
Series - Original Guide to Love and Sex and Making
Sex Even Better or the Sinclair Intimacy Institute's 10
Secrets to Great Sex. All three of these DVDs are explicit
but portray loving couples enjoying healthy, sexual expression and intimacy. They
are R-rated, rather than X. If you are looking for a more
explicit movie experience, Adultshop.com
have an extensive range for purchase, or for streaming through your computer via
the internet. As Pamela Lister says in Married
Lust "pornography is a tool and, if nothing else, just watching each
other watch can be a huge turn-on." Books Indispensable! Read
sexual
fantasies, alone
or together..
Browse through the best
how-to books for inspiration..
Work on your sexual
relationship using ideas from the experts..
Learn new positions from the
classics... Music We
all have our favourites. Know your partner's and take some trouble to choose well.
For a more sexual musical mood, try Sex:
12 Music Vignettes: twelve steamy, erotic tracks based on women's fantasies,
with accompanying electronic music. This is a unique collection, specially imported
into Australia. Creating mood There
are countless ways of creating the right mood for yourself and your partner from
the explicit - talk suggestively to him/her
- tell
him/her that you can't wait until you are alone together
to
the subtle - help her with the housework
- listen
closely to what he says to you no matter how distracted you are.
Many
books
offer tips and suggestions, whilst props such as toys
and lingerie
can help. Take responsibility for getting yourself in the
mood by indulging your own senses, with bathing and other sensual activities.
Dress yourself for the occasion, imagine what is going to happen, relax yourself
with the techniques that work for you. For the ultimate romantic
gesture, seduce your lover with a bed
of roses - decorate your bed with 100 scented silk rose petals. Light the
four tea lights and present your loved one with a special invitation card.
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