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Fantasy time Pretending to be a favourite
character or role can be fun, liberating and give us erotic fantasies to work
with.We can imagine, dress-up, create an atmosphere, role-play, talk dirty and
tell our lover what we want. Fantasy role play is liberating
for those who find it difficult to let themselves go, and to express their real
needs. Submerged in the identity of a fantasy character, it is easier to voice
desires that are difficult to say in day-to-day life. LoveLife
Plus's Fantasy
Cards include roles such as:
" American spy and Russian spy
"
Call girl and client
" Civilian and cop
" Frenchmaid and millionaire
"
Gynaecologist and patient
" Librarian and bookworm
" Photographer
and model
" Teacher and student
" Widow and gardener The
cards provide character descriptions (including passive and assertive roles for
each character), locations and clothing suggestions. Enact your own private movie
script at home! If you're ready to tell all, lure him
to the bedroom with the promise of revealing your filthiest fantasy. You'll be
surprised how liberating it can be telling him you've imagined having sex doggy
fashion with the plumber! Talk about the fantasy in detail, how you've imagined
it coming about and all the things you've got up to in your imagination. Then
it's his turn to reveal his filthiest fantasy. Remember, you do have to be prepared
for him to say he fancies the next-door neighbour too. This is a very good exercise
for couples - it's a sharp, shocking reminder that we're all individual sexual
people with individual sexual thoughts, but if it's done tactfully you shouldn't
hurt each other. Rather, the idea is to excite each other. And once you're both
turned on from all this dirty talking, share a fantasy together, making it up
as you go along. Fantasy can't harm and creates a wonderful shared intimacy. Make
love as you fantasise together. That was worth waiting for, wasn't it?! Dressing
up Imagine yourself arriving home to find your lover seductively
dressed for a night of passion. But how they are dressed will depend on individual
taste. Anything goes here: uniforms, fantasy characters, movie
or rock stars. Extend the dressing up with a fantasy scenario and really enter
into the game. Or use clothing to create a mood: try a short skirt without panties,
a see-through shirt with no bra, or go to bed in suspenders and stockings. To
add to the sexual tension, add a new rule such as not being allowed to touch each
other at all. Even hand-holding is forbidden. The idea is to create the exciting
barriers that are in place when a couple hardly know each other and are desperate
for physical contact. Think it sounds simple? Well, to make it just that bit harder
you have to stay at home and you wear something wildly provocative. For
her, check out the range of hosiery
in our online shop. What about an all-in-one catsuit or black body stocking
to prowl around in? Both are sexy and stylish, making the wearer look and feel
gorgeously sleek. For something less obvious, try fishnet or sheer stockings,
either stay up style or with built in garter. These are a favourite for wearing
both at home, and when dressed for a great night out. For an added dash of excitement
during a formal or social evening, it's hard to beat stockings without panties.
If you both know the state of semi-undress she's in, the night out may be shorter
than planned.
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